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. 2021 Feb 17;76(3):551-562.
doi: 10.1093/geronb/gbaa007.

Friendships in Old Age: Daily Encounters and Emotional Well-Being

Yee To Ng  1 , Meng Huo  2 , Marci E Gleason  1 , Lisa A Neff  1 , Susan T Charles  3 , Karen L Fingerman  1
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Friendships in Old Age: Daily Encounters and Emotional Well-Being

Yee To Ng et al. J Gerontol B Psychol Sci Soc Sci. .

Abstract

Objectives: Having friends in old age is linked to higher levels of happiness and life satisfaction. Yet, we know little about older adults' emotional experiences when they encounter friends throughout the day. This study examined whether older adults reported (a) more pleasantness, (b) fewer conversations about stressful experiences, and (c) better mood when they had contact with friends compared to when they had contact with other social partners or were alone throughout the day. We also examined whether these experiences varied by the friendship closeness.

Method: Adults aged 65+ (n = 313) from the Daily Experiences and Well-being Study provided background information and listed and described their close social partners. Participants then completed ecological momentary assessment (EMA) surveys every 3 hr for 5 to 6 days where they reported their encounters with social partners, rated the pleasantness and indicated whether they discussed stressful issues during these encounters, and rated positive and negative mood.

Results: Multilevel models revealed that encounters with friends were more pleasant and were associated with fewer discussions about stressful experiences compared to encounters with romantic partners or family members throughout the day. Encounters with friends were also associated with better mood, though this link only held for encounters with friends who were not considered close.

Discussion: Findings are discussed in terms of functionalist theory, socioemotional selectivity theory, relationship ambivalence, and the benefits of less close ties. This work facilitates the understanding of how daily contact with friends can promote older adults' emotional well-being.

Keywords: Close relationships; Daily experiences; Ecological momentary assessment; Friends.

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