I think you're confusing several concepts here. A "variable" is a way of referring to an object, and in languages like JavaScript, a way of retaining a reference to it so it doesn't go away until you're done with it.
In C++ there are also variables, but they're more as a convenience to the programmer as once that code is compiled they don't exist in the same fashion as they do in JavaScript, they can often get optimized away.
In your code you have a variable myCar which lets you manipulate the object. If you just did this:
new Object()
That creates an object, but effectively throws it away. In JavaScript this gets garbage collected and cleaned up. In C++ that's a memory leak.
You can have objects without variables, and you can have variables without objects, like this:
var x = 9
console.log(typeof(x))
// => number
Where x is a variable and it's just a number, not an object.
Saying "objects are considered variables" is like saying "a house can be considered its street address". It's not true though. It's a building that happens to have a particular street address, but you can move the house around, and some houses even have wheels on them for this purpose. Likewise, addresses can change but the house remains the same.
A street address is a way to refer to a house, just as a variable can refer to an object. It could also refer to an empty lot, as undefined in JavaScript.
Tip: It's generally a good practice to use let or const now instead of the more generic, and sometimes troublesome var.